Now it's no secret that getting relationship advice from me is like getting religious advice from a suicide bomber ;) However, I do have one good piece of advice for you fellas. I can tell you the sure fire sign she is either in for the long haul or the short term and it all stems from the honey do. If the honey do list is long and continuously growing she is working you like she is renting you. That's a short term situation. If the honey do list has a couple of items on it and there is a break in between list then she understands she owns you and plans to get many years out of you ;) Big Love